Breakups are earth shattering. Especially when you have spent a significant amount of time with that person...when you loved that person. Very little provides solace because your heart hurts so terribly. There is so little that can be said to help sooth the pain. It feels like you will never, no matter how hard to try, love someone again. You're already exhausted by the idea of trying. Sometimes that is the worst part of the whole thing; the unwillingness to try again. My aunt once said one very important thing to me that I have not since forgotten:
"No matter how much your heart is breaking, it will repair itself and you will love again because that is what humans do."Truer words have never been spoken.
